Not having limits might sound sexy. You might feel like, “If I don’t have limits, it will make me more interesting and more people will want to engage with me.”
Here is why I encourage you to discover what your limits are-and respect the limits of others.
When you don’t have limits, think of ...
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Race is a social construct that was created to divide & conquer- so; I’ll give you a perfect example of the insidious way it plays out in cuckolding.
Cuckolding requests, for me, as a provider of color, have consistently ended in one specific scenario. It is EXTREMELY common for a young or old w...
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I recently witnessed an entire room at DomCon expel a single member from their midst. A room full of smiling, apparently docile listeners went from passive and listening to angry and dismissive. Why? The reason was entirely centered around the topic of ethical domination and raceplay.Read More »
How can you spot a time waster and what can you do about it? Read below for 4 key signals that the sub or Dom who has asked to book you is getting ready to waste your time.
First, why would a sub or Dom want to waste your time? I’ll be direct here and to th...
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Communication speaks volumes. It is easy for us to fall into the same patterns of communication and ways of doing things that we always have, because it works for us.
When you first meet someone in the kink community on your journey, one of the first questions asked the most is, "How long have y...
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Consider these common sexual myths below: Where did the idea that all black men have big members originate? Why are Asian women viewed as sexually submissive in the bedroom? Why are black women considered hypersexual, and Asian men less sexually desirable? Furthermore, why are latinas con...
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For those of you new to the BDSM landscape, I’ll tell you what it isn’t. It’s not a bunch of sick, deprived people beating each other up for gratification. It’s also not sex. BDSM is based on power dynamics.
BDSM began in military culture and favors...
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